Baby Number Two is a…
Holy smokes!!!! We have been dying to share the gender but at the same time, we’ve really enjoyed keeping it between us because it’s (probably) going to be our last baby and we loved keeping a little piece of this journey private for awhile. Today is the day! The news is finally out!!! I am honestly so relieved that I don’t have to keep a secret anymore because it has been HARD not to let it slip! We could NOT be more thrilled, blessed, or READY to announce that Baby Number Two is a……………
BOY!!!
Can you believe it?!!? I still can’t sometimes. He kicks and wiggles and punches and moves non-stop and I am reminded that I probably have a little athlete in there just like Tim (who played pro hockey for 12 years and his mom tells me that he was a crazy baby… oh lord!), which is partly exciting and partly terrifying because he might be a WILD MAN! There is literally never a moment where I’m not reminded that this pregnancy is a miracle–but it is SO DIFFERENT. It’s been sooooo opposite from my pregnancy with Leni. With Leni, I didn’t have any nausea at all, barely felt any different than normal and honestly just loved being pregnant from start to finish with her. With Baby Boy, the road has been a little bit rockier. I was soooo nauseous for the first three months and narcoleptic tired 24/7, plus I’ve had crazy food aversions and haven’t been able to eat meat or many vegetables for months now… not to mention the fact my baby bump is bigger at 6 months pregnant than it was at nearly 8+ months when I was pregnant with Leni! It’s crazy how stark the differences have been!!
Tim and I have always wanted one boy and one girl, because I have one brother and Tim has one sister, so it’s just what we’re used to. We had a really hard time getting pregnant so we had to do IVF, so we were actually able to choose the gender of the baby, which was bizarre and not something I had ever planned to be able to do, but it is part of the process and something that was presented to us. It’s all pretty complicated but we didn’t really “choose the gender”, but rather just chose the embryo that was the strongest and healthiest that gave us the highest chance of having a successful pregnancy, and that embryo just happened to be a boy.
If I’m being totally transparent, my mama heart feels like I won’t be able to love a little boy as much as I love Leni, but my brain reminds me that that is totally CRAZY and that the amount of love gets multiplied, not divided with each new baby. But one thing I know for sure, I have a lottttttt of pink and purple clothes, toys and baby gear that aren’t going to be used for Baby Number Two! As much as we plan to stop at two kids, part of me isn’t ready to give away all the baby girl stuff just in CASE we change our minds and want another baby… (don’t tell Tim, he might keel over – ha).
In all of this, I’m also reminded that God’s timing is PERFECT because we had planned to be pregnant much earlier with this baby but because I had a miscarriage and then had to go through fertility treatments: this baby is a lot later on the timeline than we had originally hoped. We wanted them two years apart, but they will be closer to three years apart in reality. However, I am actually so so so so soooo happy that we had so many extra months with just Leni to focus on because it’s been so incredible to watch her grow as a two year old and if we had been pregnant when we wanted to originally, I wouldn’t have this extra time to enjoy watching her grow.
It still seems SO unreal that we’re having a little boy, and I am so grateful for this blessing after our difficult journey to get here. I pray for mamas DAILY that are hoping for their rainbow babies, and for those who have endured the heartbreak of infertility and loss. It never gets easier, but I truly believe God has had a plan for our lives all along and that He is so, so good.
The beautiful tropical photos were shot by Taena for Flytographer! (Tim isn’t in them because he wasn’t on the trip – ha – sorry Tim!) Wherever you are in the world, Flytographer connects you with awesome photographers in your area! You can use the code EVASHOCKEY50 for $50 off a photoshoot or gift card!
Ultrasound photos shot by my friend Jennifer Wilson Photography!
I’ve been dying to know the gender! Finally! Congrats on a little boy blessing! God’s timing is always perfect! Jeremiah 29:11
Yahoo! I was 3 months ahead of you last time and now you’re 3 months ahead of me! Also had a miscarriage in between too. The love and joy continues though!! Boy here too!!!
Yay!!! Congratulations! Boys are so fun!!
Congratulations!! Ahhh, that’s why you’re all on blue in your pregnancy announcement! As a boy mom myself, they can be so very wild but the sweet hugs and “Love you moms” are indescribable.
Dear Eva & Tim,
Congratulations on your upcoming baby Boy we are so excited for you both. I know Tim has to be over filled with Joy along with Grandpa Jim LOL.
God bless you all and prayers be with you on your adventure expanding your family.
A BOY!! Congratulations!!! What an absolute blessing! You are so right, it’s God’s plan and it’s all in his timing. We have been trying for two years and IVF isn’t an option for us. I know if it is God’s will, it WILL be done one way or another!
Congratulations!!! So excited for all of you! Prayers for a continued healthy pregnancy and birth. ?
So exciting!!! I have one of each too and it was a challenge going from girl to boy but I love it. Mine are 6 years apart and it was a shock. You are all the sweetest!
Congrats!!! I too had a daughter and then a son. They are totally different! You will easily love him as much as Leni (I also struggled with that worry). Congrats again and may the rest of your pregnancy be a breeze!
Kerri
Welcome to the boy mom club . As a mother of three boys I can tell you it is an amazing and adventurous ride. So happy for you and your family ! Prayers for continued health and the birth of a healthy happy bouncing baby boy.
Congrats Eva! I found out last weekend that we too are having a boy! #boymomsunite So excited for this new adventure!
Congratulations on a boy!! Everyone needs at least one of each gender!!
My family went through very similar experiences. Had our daughter, miscarriage 1.5 later, then finally when our daughter was 5 we got pregnant with a boy. I never knew how i could love both, but its such an amazing feeling and the love for each is very strong really different as well. Its a beautiful thing!
I knew it!!! Congratulations ❤
Congratulations! I had a girl first as well and she turned 2 in March. Having a boy sometime this month ?
I am so happy and excited for you. Your have a precious little family and just imagine how much love and new memories are on the way. I enjoy all of your posts and pics so much as they are just what I need some days. Thank you for sharing your journey and for continuing to be an inspiration to so many.
SO EXCITING!! I have a 2 (almost 3) year old girl & just gave birth to a baby boy. We also wanted 1 boy & 1 girl! I had the same feelings you do about how you’d feel when a baby boy comes along after having a daughter this whole time.. but boy that connection between mama & her son is just something. So many times I’ve teared up looking at him just because I love him so much!! Congrats to your sweet little fam on the best news ever!!!
Yay boys are so fun!!! Sorry that you had a rough go getting pregnant and sorry for your loss on your baby. I hope the rest of your pregnancy is a breeze and you have a healthy delivery.. so exciting! ?❤❤
Congratulations. So happy for your little family. Having a little boy and girl is amazing-
Congratulations!
Congratulations! My first child was a boy and I secretly wanted a girl so I had the same worry as you…fast forward to him being born and I could NOT love him anymore!! There’s just something about a momma and her son 🙂 now I have two boys and a newborn baby girl and it’s crazy how much love you have in your heart that you never knew was there!
Congratulations! I have the same at home, a two year old little girl and just recently had my little guy. He’s one month old. You will love him equally as much, they are both so special and different! I honestly struggled with the same thoughts, but it’s been so fun. Best wishes on the rest of your pregnancy!
Aahhh wonderful news!! So happy for you guys! And as for the pink and purple toys, kids don’t see the colour lol! My oldest was a son then we had daughters, they played with boy toys! I even got a pair of monster jam pjs that they all wore! As for when they get older ? that’s when the dramatics start lol. Congrats again to you all ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Holy smokes girlfriend! I am SO excited for your little family of 4! Ekk! Congratulations! Love following your life via Instagram/blog! Cheers to future skinned knees and lots of nerf gun fights!
Holy smokes girlfriend! So exciting! Ekk! Congratulations! Love following your life via Instagram/blog! Here’s to future skinned up knees and lots of nightly nerf gun fights!
I am so happy and excited for you and Tim! (and Leni)
May God continue to Bless your family as your journey through this wonderful life goes on.
I am so excited for you, Tim, Leni and Piper! What an exciting time! I can’t wait to see all the cute outfits you put your little guy in!
Congratulations!! I had a strong feeling it was a boy.. You will have lots of love for both your precious babies ?
Congratulations!!!! So happy for your family!!
Congratulations to you and your sweet family, Eva! Welcome to the boy mom club. It’s like no other??Praying for a smooth last trimester and delivery! Can’t wait to see him and how he blends right in with your already beautiful family??
?Congratulations to your growing family! ???
Could not wait for this! So super glad you are having a boy now Leni can be a princess just in case she don’t want to hunt! But that is every boys dream and that is where bonding with him comes into play… It will be wonderful either way! You are my everyday watch on Instagram! You made Hawaii look awesome and my husband wants to go and hunt axis deer!! I wish the best for you today and everyday!! Remember to hug Tim and kiss Leni! Have a good day!!
Could not wait for this! So super glad you are having a boy now Leni can be a princess just in case she don’t want to hunt! But that is every boys dream and that is where bonding with him comes into play… It will be wonderful either way! You are my everyday watch on Instagram! You made Hawaii look awesome and my husband wants to go and hunt axis deer!! I wish the best for you today and everyday!! Remember to hug Tim and kiss Leni! Have a good day!!
Congratulations Eva, Tim and Leni Bow! So excited that your newest addition is a little boy! Such a blessing! Thank you for always being so real and transparent! Praying for you through the pregnancy, birth and transition to a family of 4!
Congratulations! That is so exciting! I went through the exact same thing. We wanted them 2 years apart, but we had a miscarriage and soon after we’re pregnant with a little boy. My daughter and son are almost 3 years apart, but it’s so perfect! You’ll love every minute of it.
Congratulations May he be healthy and happy congratulations again
Congratulations !!! Little boys are amazing I have two !!
Congrats!!! I love following your journey as we are only 1 week apart (or so) on our due dates
My husband and I are having a boy as well!!! Praying the rest of your pregnancy goes nice and easy!!!
Congrats!!!! You will be amazed at how that mama love multiplies the second they are placed in your arms. You will love that baby boy just as much as Leni.
I’ve got 3 girls and we are expecting a boy in October!!! I’m so excited to shop in the boy section! 14 years of girls everything – boy land is so exciting!
Congratulations Eva! I am so happy for you, Tim and Leni. A little boy will just add the love you already have for Leni. God Bless you today and always. xoxox
Congrats Eva! I hope your pregnancy is smooth sailing from here.
Ohhh congrats!!! I too had a girl first and boy second so I can totally relate to “how can I POSSIBLY love another soul as much as this little girl?!” Baby boys give you a different kind of love (girls are very independent right?!) and of course your mama’s heart will be twice as full ??
You are beautiful xx
Congratulations!!! I’m also pregnant with baby #2 (ivf/boy) and my daughter will be 3 when he is born! I love that your story is so similar to mine. Makes me feel normal ?!! And these toddler girls ??♀️ Aka diva’s!!! Lol
So happy for you and your family!
Aw, congrats to your little family!
We just had our second, a boy! Our first is a girl and they are 2.5 years apart. I totally felt like I could never love another baby as much as I love my first. Especially a boy. LIES! Lol. It’s such a different kind of love. They are just born a mommas boy and instantly your heart will melt! ❤️ Congrats! Love keeping up with you and your fam!
Congrats to you and your little family! So happy for you guys! Leni will be such a great big sister. ?
I am almost 14 weeks and can not eat meats like I use too. I thought I was crazy at first but maybe not! The only meat I can eat is chick-fil-a nuggets.
Congrats! I’m also due in August and also 25 weeks pregnant and also having a boy and habe also suffered with PCOS and also in my 30’s ?! Keep up the good work and inspiring so many and sharing your love of God! God Bless!
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